The Best Ride EVER!

        The State Fair was in N.C. a couple weeks ago. Maybe you were there, eating lots of things that you'd only try once a year, or maybe spending boatloads of money trying to shoot a plastic bathtub ducky out of the water as it wobbled by (just one more shot!), or maybe you rode some of the wild rides that promised thrills, but mostly made you feel a little sick. Good times.

      For several years now, I've been on a wild ride. Not a fair ride, but something far better...

     About 6 years ago, I first felt God calling me into something more, to take another step and find out for myself what it would be like to live closer to Him. I felt Him nudging my heart to learn more about Him and to help other people do the same. I knew He was calling me into some kind of counseling, but I was not sure exactly what that meant. 

And then He did the sweetest thing....He showed me a picture. As I was praying early one morning, He very clearly gave me a picture of myself, getting off of a rollercoaster. Standing there waiting as I got off of the ride, I saw Jesus. He looked right at me and said, "Wasn't that a GREAT ride?" And with all the enthusiasm and exhilaration of a kid, I said, "YES!" And that is exactly what it has been like.

     Counseling from God's Word has been full of ups and downs, twists and unexpected turns, and alot of thrills! It has never, not once, been boring or mundane. It has been very scary at times, but there has never been a single moment that I felt alone. There is nothing more amazing than having a front row seat to watch the Holy Spirit work in someone's life...to see God free them from something that has been debilitating in their life, or to see Him restore someone's marriage, or watch in awe as someone comes to know Christ for the first time, or comes back to Him after years of being lost, to witness the lord bring someone back from the brink of suicide to a heart full of the joy of knowing Him. There is another amazing thing that happens every time I get on this ride with someone and we climb the steepest hills imaginable, cascading to the bottom and suddenly turning and twisting, our stomachs somewhere behind us. There is a bond that forms. We laugh together, we cry together, we pray together (alot) and we both experience His greatness and power together. It is the heart of sisterhood,  knit together by Christ and it is a treasure of inexpressable value. 

     Today, I was having a difficult time expressing to one of my dear sisters in Christ, how I'd been feeling lately. I tried to articulate how I had been experiencing this strong desire to have my whole life be so connected to Him, that there was never any separation, that everything would be about Him. I told her that I could feel it building every day, every week. My eloquent friend looked at me and said, "It's like you're at the top of a roller coaster and you're about to go down that big, steep hill. You can see it right in front of you and the anticipation is palpable!"  There it was...the rollercoaster, the ride I was on and the One, Who will be with me on this next adventure, gave me the sweetest reminder of His Presence in it all, with her words that took me back to where it had all started. 

And that is where I am...I know that something very exciting is coming, a new adventure and a thrilling ride. I don't know all the twists and turns, but I know one thing with all certainty. If it is the ride He has for me...I don't want to miss one second! 

It is what we are all made for, to know Him and the greatness of His love. Nothing, no not one thing, compares to the joy of knowing Him, and of sharing that love with others!  

                                                         

So what are you waiting for? He has a more thrilling ride than any state fair or amusement park could ever build, and it is designed just for you. So hop on. If you do, when you step off at the end, and He asks you what you thought, you too, can say with a childlike excitement, "That was the best ride EVER!" 

     

Use It or Lose It!

                                                          

     How many of us, in our younger years, played a sport, an instrument or practiced something deligently, determined to improve on what we had the day before? Fast forward twenty or thirty years and one of our kids asks us to play that sport or instrument with them. Wow! What has happened to our excellent skill, our aptitude, and our prowess? It has faded with the passing years of non-use, like a light that has dimmed, our glory days are but a memory. 

    Jesus used a parable (story) to illustrate this principle in Mark 4:21-25. I was reading this passage today as part of a wonderful Bible study called, "You Belong to the Bridegroom" by my precious friend Aliene Thompson (you can order it at www.treasuredministries.com). One of the things I love about her studies is the room she leaves for the Holy Spirit to speak through the Word to you personally. The Lord spoke loudly and clearly through the parable in this morning's Scripture: 

      He said to them, "Do you bring in a lamp to put it under a bowl or a bed? Instead, don't you put it on a stand? For whatever is hidden is meant to be disclosed and whatever is concealed is meant to be brought out into the open. If anyone has ears to hear, let him hear." 

     "Consider carefully what you hear," he continued. "With the measure you use, it will be measured to you-and even more. Whoever has will be given more;whoever does not have, even what he has will be taken from him."

     In today's language, "use it or lose it!" Jesus was telling his followers that we have been given the light of Christ and if we CHOOSE to hide it, out of fear, ignorance or rebellion, that light will grow dimmer, flickering and fading from what it used to be. No longer will His light radiate forth from within, shining for all who are walking in the darkness...and where will that leave the world, our nation, our communities and our families? 

    Here is the good news: our faith does not have to disappear with the other things that age may dull! We can actually become stronger, with more love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, gentleness, faithfulness and self-control! Our Lord tells us exactly how we can grow, rather than die...gain rather than lose...experience feast, rather than famine~ 

The more we use what He has given us for His glory (not our own), the more we grow in our faith, love, and understanding of Him! Through His Word, His Spirit, and fellowship with His people, more and more is poured out for us to share! And who among us does not think the world needs more faith-filled, Christ-centered, selfless love, to light  the darkness today? 

     It is the choice of every one of us. We can continue to let our faith wither and fade from lack of use, or we can dust it off, and turn our hearts back to Him. Start today, start where you are, and take that next step to use what you have been given. There is no better "Trainer" than Jesus!  He can get your heart back in shape in no time..that's what He came for! He can reignite your lamp! 

    Speak of what He is doing in your life, love that difficult co-worker or spouse with His grace, forgive those who have hurt you...all of this and more, have been given to you as undeserved grace. Now is the time for you to use it! 

 Let your light shine!

Reflect, Renew, Rejoice

   As I tuck 2012 into my memory and prepare for 2013, I can't help but be grateful for all of the beautiful (and sometimes difficult) ways God has stretched and grown me this past year. Some of the lessons I've learned have been sweet and some have been heart-breaking, but as I reflect on them all, I can see His love reaching out to the depths of my soul...and I rejoice...for He is making all things new. 

    Here are just a few of the things He has laid on my heart this past year. 

    I have learned...

    Some of God's sweetest "love notes" are not in the big things, but in the details He clearly orchastrates. 

   God's timing and provision are fully trustworthy and perfect, even if it was not what we had planned. 

    I need to be intentional in praying through decisions, because only God knows the future.

   When I overcommit, overbook, or overdo it only makes me less connected to Him and less loving to others. 

   A heart of legallism can be disguised and repackaged, but it will still eventually permeate and destroy the very thing or people it is trying to control. Only a heart of love brings life. 

   When I draw my fulfillment from my relationship with Christ and my complete dependance on the Holy Spirit's leading, I am free to simply love others-not worry about having them meet my expectations or whether I meet theirs. 

    It is not important to define myself by a job, title, or church affiliation, but only by how I follow Jesus and love others.

  Thank you for letting me share these with you! My prayer is that you may glean from them and perhaps share some of the things God has revealed to you this year. May our hearts be always open and rejoicing in His amazing wisdom, goodness, and most of all, love. 

                                             Happy New Year!

Did You Fall For That Trick Again?

                                             

Today’s headlines carried another sad story of a high-ranking, well-educated and established leader in our country falling to the deception of sexual sin; tearing his family apart and destroying his career.

Solomon once said, “What has been will be again, what has been done will be done again; there is nothing new under the sun” The same things that tempted people 1000's of years ago, are still tempting you and me today. So why do we still fall for the same old tricks and how can we guard against the Enemy’s schemes? 

1. “Pride goes before destruction, a haughty spirit before a fall”(Prov. 16:18). When we think highly of ourselves, we are most likely thinking less of God. The remedy for a prideful spirit is humility and the result of humility...wisdom (Prov. 11:2).  Humility comes from focusing on Who God is, His amazing all-knowing, all-powerful Presence.  He has authority over all of creation, He breathes life into every being, He is everywhere all at once...pretty sure none of us can make any of those claims! 
2. “Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it” (Proverbs 4:23) Remember the little childrens’ song, “Be careful little eyes what you see, be careful little ears what you hear...”? We often rationalize those first few steps down the slippery slope of sin. We are not careful about the doors we open. We think, “just one look” or “a simple lunch with a friend” or a “facebook message to an old boyfriend or girlfriend” is harmless. But the door is left cracked and our heart has become vulnerable. The first step toward destruction has taken place and before we know it, we have fallen prey to the same old tricks that the enemy has used to destroy lives and marriages for years. 
3. How do we “guard our hearts?” Scripture is your sword! When Satan tempted Jesus, Our Savior fought with the strongest weapon. He used the Truth of God’s Word to combat the lies. You and I need to follow Christ’s example. The more we are in the Word, the more it will be in our hearts and a part of who we are. So, when(not if), temptation comes, we will be prepared for the battle!

   What do we do if our heart has been entangled with sin and deception? The great news is that there is no sin too big for God’s grace to cover it! All you have to do is to confess(admit what you have done to God), repent(tell God you are really sorry), and turn around. Even if you have taken 100 steps away from God, when you turn around, He will be 99 right behind you. We all fall short of the glory of God...but that is the whole purpose of the Cross. Without it, we were lost, with no hope of relationship with God, no hope for righteousness and no hope for eternity. And yet...while we were still sinners, Christ died for us (Romans 5:8). We have hope because of the work of the Cross!

Let’s stop falling for these old, lame tricks. Let’s humble ourselves before our Creator, no longer walking in pride and haughtiness. Let us be wise in our humility, guarding our hearts from evil, so that we can live with the freedom, purpose and joy He intended for us to have! 

Can You Find Your Keys?

        

                                         

    I have a big, black purse that seems to swallow up everything that goes into it. My family calls it "the black hole." One of the most difficult things to find in it are my keys. There have been many times I have had to dump everything out and sort through all the junk in order to find them. It is always a desperate search because without my keys, I can't get anywhere. 
     Some of the keys to life have been just as hidden and hard to find. I've had to dump everything out and sift through the mess to find them. The search is always worth the effort, though. 
    Today, I'll share the first key. This is the key to real, lasting and true freedom...and who doesn't want that door unlocked? 
    How many of us consider ourselves free, but are being bound by the invisible yoke of slavery? It all depends on where you are looking for freedom. Here are some questions to determine where you might be looking and what chains may have you bound:

     1) Is your self-worth tied to what others say about you?
     2) Are you living with hurt, bitterness and unforgiveness in your heart?
     3) Do you make decisions based on your feelings?
     4) Does your performance/accomplishment make you feel valuable and good about yourself?
     
    These are just a few of the things that can entangle us. If you aren't sure whether you may be enslaved to any of these or something else, pray and ask God to open your eyes to the hidden places of bondage in your heart and mind. If you still aren't certain, you can ask your spouse or a close friend to be honest with you...they'll let you know. Be prepared, it is hard to have our weaknesses exposed, but it is the first step in the key to freedom.
    There is a key to a glorious life that is not controlled by any of these things. It is the secret that I have had to learn. It is a key that we have all been given...we only have to choose whether we will use it or not. The secret is this: The more you know and are surrendered to God, the more freedom you will experience. I used to think it was the opposite...that I would be stifled, held down by rules and not able to have any fun if I surrendered everything. That is perhaps the biggest lie that keeps us from using our most important key...pursuing a deep, intimate relationship with the One who willingly paid the highest price for our freedom. 
    It is in the pursuit of knowing Him and how He sees you...beautiful, unique, His beloved...that you will find the freedom you have been looking for. It rarely happens overnight, but if you start today; praying, reading and studying His Word, listening to His quiet whispers to your heart...you will be one step closer than you have been. 
    We all have things from which we need to be set free. God so loves us that He sent His only Son to die for us to have real freedom from hurt, bitterness, unforgiveness, insecurity, fear of man, and a works-based, legalistic way of thinking and living.
     It is time to stop living blind and bound! It is time to reach your arms to heaven and shout the words in Galatians 5:1, "It is for freedom that Christ set us free; therefore stand firm and do not be subject again to a yoke of slavery." 
    So, dump out your life before God, let Him sift through the mess and help you find the key. After all, you have places to go!
   
   
   

In the Silence

       Today, in my New Testament class, our professor was lecturing on the "Second Temple Times". These are the 400 years in between the Old Testament, that ends with the prophet Malachi and the beginning of the New Testament, where John the Baptist enters in the gospel of Matthew. Although these years were also known as the "silent years" and there may not have been any inspired Scripture written, God was anything but silent.  As our class listened intently, my professor wove stories with intelligence and nuance of battles, kings, cruel leadership, corrupt priests, and destruction. Once the facts were laid out before us, he presented the purpose in looking at this time period. What may have seemed like just a bunch of historical facts and dates were really God's brushstrokes of Providence and Sovereignty. Every cultural, political and historical detail in those silent years, was part of God's most amazing plan for grace that the world has ever known! 
     After leaving class, I was pondering all I'd heard. I began to feel that the Holy Spirit was pressing more into my mind. I started thinking about the apparent "silence" of God in those years. Surely, God's people wondered why He wasn't speaking. Had He forgotten them? Did He not realize that they were suffering under cruel leadership? It must have seemed like He had turned His face from them...while all the time, He was working all things on their behalf.

             In the silence, He was working. 

He was bringing them more than the political, military rescue they wanted. He was bringing them a soul rescue. The same silence came between the horrible cruelty of the Crucifixion on Friday and the miraculous Resurrection on Sunday. The disciples thought all was lost in that silence. They believed that all that they had hoped for in Jesus was gone.

            In the silence, God was working. 

    Do you feel like God has forgotten you? Do you wonder why He is not answering? Do you think that He does not see your suffering? Oh my precious, let these words be an encouragement to you. The bridge between seeing and believing is trust. None of us can see beyond where we are right now, but if you trust in Him, you can believe that He has your future.

             In the silence, He is working. 
                                    

                                    

Blue Skies

      "I lift up my eyes to the hills-where does my help come from? My help comes from the Lord, the Maker of heaven and earth." ~Psalm 121:1-2

                                                               
     I drove down the two lane, lonely road this morning. My mood matched the sky above...cloudy and gray. My heart was heavy from the recent conversations with friends who are in a difficult season right now. The precious faces of the ones I love and had been praying for were filling my thoughts and blurring my mind with sorrow. Several times this week,  my gracious God had brought Psalm 121:1-2 to my attention. Perhaps it was with that in mind that I instinctively looked up at the sky. It was in that moment that God painted a beautiful picture for me. The clouds parted and in a moment, a small patch of blue sky appeared amongst the gray. I felt His Spirit whisper, "I am your blue sky." My heart melted and I smiled saying back to Him, "Yes, God, You ARE my blue sky!" At that moment, my ipod began to play over the radio, Tenth Avenue North's song, "Strong Enough to Save". I heard the words clearly as I watched the clouds part..."And he'll break open the skies to save those who cry out His Name. The One the wind and the waves obey, He's strong enough to save you..."